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Newsletter No 9 :: May 03

Dear All,

Writing this newsletter becomes more worthwhile when I get e-mails saying things like "I'm waiting in anticipation for this months newsletter - always a good read." Thank you so much! This issue picks up on a number of suggestions from readers, with my own 'style' added of course! I hope you enjoy some of the following:

As many readers will know, last week I was working at a conference for IT Directors, held on board the cruise liner MV Oriana. I was providing coaching sessions for delegates, which was great fun, and was able to attend some of the keynote speaker sessions (OK, yes I also managed to enjoy a little bit of food, wine and on-board entertainment during the trip - it would have been rude not to!).

The opening keynote speech, which 'Took my Breath Away', was by Mark Dahl and Gerry Gallop, former US Navy fighter pilots and attendees of the "Top Gun" (as in the film) fighter pilot academy. In fact, Gerry was Commanding Officer of the academy for two years and their presentation was all about how the 'Top Gun Principles' could be applied to our business and personal lives to increase effectiveness. Now, I have a particular affinity with Goose (and some of you will know why), one of the characters in the movie Top Gun, so I paid particular attention to their presentation, and now wish to share some elements of their philosophy with you. I noted five particular principles that we can apply to many elements of our lives, and should Gerry and Mark ever get to see this, I apologise for any omissions or errors!

The Coaching Cynic

This newsletter is read by a number of fellow coaches, and a few friends and former colleagues who I know have a wry smile at some of my thoughts, so I include here for their amusement some alternative views:

This worked for me and I think it may work for you. I have found Inner Peace.

Recently I read an article that stated: The best way to achieve inner peace is to Finish Things You Have Started.

So today I finished two large bags of potato chips, the last half of a lemon cream pie, all the cigarettes in the house, a nearly full bottle of Jose Cuervo, a small box of Godiva Chocolates and I slapped the living daylights out of someone I have never liked.

I feel better than I have felt for a long time. Please pass this along to a friend who is in need of Inner Peace.

(Thanks to Haggis for this, and of course I do not condone slapping anyone, even if you have never liked them!)

And an alternative quote:

I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered.
George Best

Inspiration and Humour

It seems my quotes from Harry Potter were appreciated by a few of you last month. The July newsletter may yet feature another quote from the 5th book, if I manage to get hold of a copy, but here are some more conventional quotes I have encountered and liked this month:

When you reach for the stars you may not quite get one, but you won't come up with a handful of mud either.
Leo Burnett

Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try.
Yoda the Jedi Master, from one of the Star Wars movies (and I know not which one).

For humour, I was reminded of this joke when I met a lady on board the Oriana who was wearing a gorgeous antique eternity ring (and I am making no comment on her husband):

A businessman boarded a plane to find, sitting next to him, an elegant woman wearing the largest, most stunning diamond ring he had ever seen. He asked her about it.

"This is the Klopman diamond," she said. "It is beautiful, but there is a terrible curse that goes with it."

"What's the curse?" the man asked.

"Mr. Klopman" answered the woman.

Reader Feedback

It is now a couple of months since I asked for suggestions of a title for this esteemed 'publication'. My favourite has been "Wit and Wisdom" - which of course sums me up perfectly! Sadly, that appears to have been trademarked already, so the competition is still open. And if you want to see how someone else has interpreted Wit and Wisdom, visit www.witandwisdom.org.

Summer Project

The first quarter of my coaching programme for business efficiency is now in advanced draft, and will be finding its way to my R&D team in the next few days (thanks to those who volunteered after my request last month). I would still love to work with someone who manages a department in a company - if that's you and you can spare about 15 hours over the next three months (in return for free coaching!), I would love to hear from you.

For the rest of you, stand by for the launch later in the summer.

Book Review

I have read two fantastic books in the last few weeks. The first is a humourous look at personal development from Yorkshireman Steve McDermott, How to be a complete and utter failure in life, work and everything. The book presents 39.5 steps to lasting underachievement - what NOT to do if you don't want to be a success. Steve is a well known humorous motivational speaker and his style carries into the book very well. If you are no good at not working out double negatives (like that one), it is also an excellent self-help book.

The second is a seminal text for most coaches I have met, Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki and Sharon Lechter (no relation to Hannibal). This book presents an alternative view on personal finance and suggests that we need to review how we look at our earnings and savings to achieve financial security. A thought provoking book that certainly turned some of my thinking on its head. The authors are American, so some of the information on taxation and opportunities is different than in the UK, but the principles still very much apply. Visit www.richdad.com to see details of a board game based on the ideas in the book.

Next month I will be bringing you my exclusive article "How positive thinking made Tim Henman Wimbledon Champion". What? Well you laughing is not going to help him is it? Please remember that this circulation list, and my business goes by referral, so if you think someone else would like this, click Forward. My subscription list grew by 7.5% this month - thank you for your support.

Warmest regards

James Butler

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